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|Thursday, October 24th, 2013|
Intro and promotion
Hi, I haven't posted in here yet, even though I have been a member for a few months now. I am just getting settled after moving and such. I discovered I was poly probably when I fell for my best friend and when I realized I just like living with other people more than just my husband and I. Things didn't work out between the best friend, husband, and I but it ended up being for the best. My husband and I met another couple, who btw are total nerds and I love it and we are each others first physical poly relationship. It's very serious, we have been together six months and my legal husband and my other husband's other wife are having a child together. I am elated for them and myself. Anyhow I guess that is all I have for and intro. Now for the shameless self promoting, you can check out my blog here
the fb page it's linked to here
and the twitter it's connected to here
. thank you for reading. I am also looking for friends on here, which I plan on making friends only. I don't have many poly friends.
|Friday, October 18th, 2013|
unique kind of problem I have...
suburban housewife, former schoolteacher recovering from burnout. fortunate that spouse is willing to support us while I recover from that and find a new path making art and jewelry.
problem: me spending money on things for just me are causing him to Feel Some Feelings, especially since I am bringing in zero dollars right now.
Him actually being willing to share that he is Feeling Feelings about this, actually is progress. The sad part though is that the two primary expenditures that give me great pleasure, are my gym membership and time with my trainer (which does cost extra on top of the membership) and dates with my boyfriend.
I derive a real and concrete benefit from both those things.
I don't know if this, the money question, is the root cause of his Feelings (which are less precise and less strong than the Usual Suspects of jealousy and envy) or if is is just the part he's able to identify and speak about.
and as the suburban housewife, it is hard to find someone I trust, to talk about all this with. I Feel Feelings about not having work, about dumping my problems when they feel so trivial on any of my friends (some of whom are literally struggling to pay rent and buy food, or are coping with deaths in the family)...
My Struggle ... Is. Is something I need to grapple with. I need to feel worthy enough to seek out challenging jobs that pay instead of strictly volunteering. I need to pay my rent on the planet somehow. I need to contribute, meaningfully, in my home, in my marriage, and in the rest of my community. I need to figure out how to balance my relationships, or if I can. and I need to start finding another way to finance the trainer. I need to keep working with her, I feel strong and healthy and capable for the first time in years.
thanks for listening.
|Thursday, August 29th, 2013|
|Saturday, August 17th, 2013|
What is Love?
(Baby don't hurt me.. no mo')
As I previously stated in my prior journal entry, I am a writer/roleplayer with a poly character. So I apologize if some of these are stupid questions, but I'm trying to make a realistic character and there are a few points I wish to know more about. Thank you in advance! Maybe I can even liven up this forum too. :)
I guess my first question would be something along the lines of this: How do you deal with jealousy? In most cases you can't be with two people at once while on a date. Folks have to 'share.' How do you deal with that 'second or third wheel' syndrome? Current Mood: calm
|Friday, August 16th, 2013|
New Wisconsin Group!
News from 521: Wisconsin's Bisexual/Pansexual Advocacy Group
521 moves officially into outreach and activism! We're recruiting bisexuals, pansexuals and their allies for: a Bi/Pan Speakers Bureau, Youth Outreach efforts, Pride Event planning, and fabulous social events. We'll also be planning efforts to recruit people in other parts of Wisconsin - Milwaukee! Green Bay! La Crosse! Superior! Oshkosh! Eau Claire! and many more!
521 is a Wisconsin non-profit organization dedicated to creating a state-wide response to the issues facing non-monosexual individuals. We aim to provide a sense of community among members, educate organizations that serve non-monosexual individuals on how to best address our needs, and provide support to those who may be subject to erasure in both straight and LG communities.
|Tuesday, August 13th, 2013|
Hi, everyone. I'm new to this community! I was referred here by blaisepascal
who is one of my LJ friends. I'm Bi, poly-friendly (but not myself), pagan, geeky (I play WoW and a few other games. as well as DnD etc, read manga/ watch anime, etc) Hopefully that will suit for an introduction?
I am a roleplayer/writer, and I have created a character who is poly. But I am not in real life, so it's been an interesting experience so far. I wanted to create a character that was respectful and true to the poly lifestyle as I expand her story. So I came here to ask for help! I hope that is alright!
Anyways, I look forward to hanging out with you guys and hope this post is ok.
Thanks so much!
Zim Current Mood: calm
|Sunday, June 30th, 2013|
Fulfilling a pact
My friend Amy, whom I have named Zahvahshlyn Kusahndjiirah Kiinbahn when she requested a new name, had no job. A week ago, she interviewed for a job. She welcomed prayers and so I made a pact with Djao'Kain (my main deity) and Kusahnjijahn - my deity of science and commerce. The pact was that if they got her the job she was interviewing for, that I would acknowledge their help in as many relevant blogs as possible, to spread their names about, because attention is the food of the gods.
So thank you, Djao'Kain and Kusahnjijahn, for Your assistance. Thank You both for doing this for my friend, whom I named "Strong Prosperous Intelligent Person" in the TPNN language. Sahn-kia, Koh Soh La Kohrain.
|Tuesday, February 26th, 2013|
Now I could be wrong but this does seem like the place to present this thought.
With the same healing factor as Logan wouldn't Lady Death Strike's hymen regenerate after sex? She would be functionally a virgin everytime no matter how many times she screwed.
This would hold true for any woman with that power.
|Tuesday, December 4th, 2012|
|Monday, November 26th, 2012|
|Sunday, October 21st, 2012|
Thinking about stuff I wish I could do for an upcoming con (Orycon) I was reminded of an old idea I'd had that might actually be practical now.
Basic idea is an English-to-English "translator".
The idea is to combine a speech-to-text routine with a text-to-speech one. So you say something into the mike inside your "mask" and it gets conveted to text and then the text gets converted back to speech and output thru the speaker of your "translator".
The idea being that you *want* the ambiguities and errors, so as to give the feel of something actually translating from an alien language. Complete with weird/silly errors.
No way am I up to doing this, but I thought I'd throw it out for folks who might be up to it so they can add some extra flavor to hall costumes.
|Sunday, October 7th, 2012|
|Monday, September 10th, 2012|
|Sunday, September 2nd, 2012|
|Saturday, September 1st, 2012|
Civil union granted to a trio in Brazil
Brazilian public notary Claudia do Nascimento Domingues set off a firestorm by granting Brazil's first civil union to a trio, an act so unprecedented that there isn't a word for it in Portuguese.
Uniao poliafetiva is the label she created. "Polyfidelitous union" is her best guess in English.
The relationship involves three professionals in their 30s -- one man and two women -- who, she says, live together, love one another as equals and are like any other non-married cohabiting couple -- except they are three.( Full article text behind cutCollapse ) Current Mood: impressed
|Thursday, August 9th, 2012|
Has anyone else used the Harrow deck from Pathfinder for divination? What do you think of it?
|Sunday, August 5th, 2012|
Any recommendations for a firewall for Windoze? The one I'd been using decided that they had to expand to a combo package that integrates Firewall & anti-virus. I've got an AV I'm perfectly happy with (F-prot).
I'm currently limping along with the freebie Norton package I can get as a Comcast subscriber, but it's just too annoying for words. Not only does it *not* let my turn off the AV part of the package, but when it runs the "background scans" (which, as I said, can't be turned off) it *ignores* the exclusuions I set. So it keeps reporting stuff as "needing action". Including files from a drive that's no longer in the system. Grr.
So, I need a free/cheap firewall program that *doesn't* include anything else. Windows built-in firewall is not remotely trustworthy in my opinion. Mostly because when I switched to the one I was using, I found out how often Windows was "phoning home" without letting me know what was going on.
Anyway, I need somethiing that will work with XP (and Win2k if possible, for an older box I've got).
And working with Win 7 when I get a new box, would be a plus as well.
|Monday, July 30th, 2012|
fundraiser for my friend Dan who is going home for hospice 8/1
it's been ages since I've posted here. If this is not allowed, please let me know. I'm putting it all behind a cut because I'm not sure.
The short version is my friend is going home for hospice wed from brain cancer and their ins doesn't cover home care except for a hospice nurse 3x/week. This is to help his wife not have to worry about what she needs vs what she can afford.
Thanks for looking.( Dan's Hospice FundCollapse )
|Friday, July 27th, 2012|
(un)Reality check ...
(cross-posted from my lj)
I was driving home from work a different way than usual the other day, because I wanted to go to a store in a neighboring town. At one section the road I took had a longish straight section with a curve up ahead in the distance. The curve was sharp enough that all you see while on the straight part of the road is trees with sky over them.
While I was still far enough away from the curve that it was impossible to see any movement of the tree branches by wind, the entire distant vista, trees and sky both, seemed to ripple as if they were a picture on a piece of cloth that wind had gotten behind. This phenomenon didn't last long.
This isn't the first time that I have seen something that suggests that it is possible to see beyond the mundane reality of this world. I hope it isn't the last either.
Has anybody else experienced anything like this relatively recently? Current Mood: curious
|Saturday, July 21st, 2012|
for sale: important issue for LGBT rights in comics
My hubby is selling a bunch of comics and found this one for which I am signal boosting since it may be relevant to many folks' interests. :)http://www.ebay.com/itm/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=150861818294
"This is a first printing of Marvel's Alpha Flight # 106. It was a pivotal issue in the book as Northstar pronounces his homosexuality. This issue went to second printing and you can tell the print run from the color of the Alpha Flight logo. Red was first printing.
This is a very important storyline in gay rights in comics. You could not ask for a better copy of the book. It is High end NM if not mint.
All of my comics are from a smoke free household. It will be shipped bagged and boarded with free shipping to the U.S. Canada is a flat $3.50, free if you win more than one auction. Please feel free to email with any questions.
Check it out and feel free to boost the signal as well! Current Mood: calm